I am Vietnamese American and I will be traveling to VN to meet a female friend who I was introduced to and I have been chatting and talking on the phone with for 6 months.
If I travel with her on a tour, can we book the same room? I heard there are restrictions but not sure what they are. How about if I stay in a Hotel in Sai Gon, can she stay in the hotel with me sometimes? Some hotels, usually the cheaper end don't seem to care much but even then it depends on the owners.
Certainly it is the law in Vietnam that a Vietnamese woman may not occupy the same room as a foreigner - unless married. Once you get into the realms of 4 or 5 star hotels then the law is usually strictly enforced. But even then if booked through a tour, questions just don't get asked.
I would suggest contacting the hotels in the first instance. Worse they can suggest is maybe two rooms! But do be aware that she will certainly have to hand over her ID card and you usually some form of ID, passport, Vietnamese driving license etc. All to do with preventing prostitution.
If you are not staying in those, it's not a big deal really. If there is any concern, just ask the receptionist to put your names on 2 separated rooms when they report to the police. Please also be aware of Vietnamese culture here in Vietnam is quite different than in America.
